Thursday, 5 October 2006

Veils and custom

Mr Jack Straw is the Member of Parliament for the town of Blackburn, north of Manchester in England. In this capacity, he holds surgeries, in which constituents can drop in to discuss problems that they want him, as their MP, to address.

Mr Straw has stated, in an interview with a regional paper, that he expects Muslim women attending his surgery to remove the face veil before coming to speak to him. He finds it puts up a barrier between him and the person concerned, not just physically but also socially. If you can't see a person's face, when you are talking to them "face to face" (sic), it makes people very uncomfortable.

In the Muslim world, the modesty of a woman is very important. Women who appear in public are expected to keep their hair covered. Only the woman's husband is allowed to see her hair, as this is regarded as a very explicit statement of her femininity. A minority within the Muslim faith demands that the woman remain virtually completely covered, as not doing so basically reduces the woman to a harlot. The dress is commonly referred to as a burka.

Jack Straw isn't just any old MP. He was Foreign Secretary and Home Secretary, and is currently Leader of the House of Commons, a pretty senior position within Parliament. His expressions, even if only aired at a local level, will be taken note of nationally if not internationally. The Muslim community has aired its disapproval of Mr Straw's statement.
Personally, I have to agree with Jack Straw that talking to somebody face-to-face who keeps their face covered is off-putting. It also goes against British custom. I respect culture, customs and religion of those who come to live in Britain or elsewhere in Europe from outside the continent. It is an expression of great open-mindedness that Muslims, Buddhists and Hindus are given the opening to worship their religion in freedom. In return, we should expect these folk to respect our custom.

I am writing this with caution, as there is a degree of resentment against migrants within the UK as well as the US. It is an issue that needs to be addressed. Not by bilateral mudslinging, but by community leaders reaching a compromise. Without fuss. I would hate to see this being picked upon by the racist element within our society as a pretext for thuggery.

6 comments:

  1. I agree with most of your reasoning Guido, respect of the differences in both ways: give and take.
    I think that with the war on terror it is difficult to just let people masked themsleves. We hardly see their eyes, they are usually all in black and if they come to talk about a social issue and make a request, perhaps they could do an effort to unveil. I remember that in france, a long time ago (20 years perhaps), they put the veil and any other religious ornements forbidden (cross around the neck or the veil) in state schools to allow communication between the various communauties and acceptance of differences more easily... of course, those with the veil argued it was racism, but it did not last.
    Valerie

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  2. OH hell..customs...customs....if she is attached to her veil..and feels shame in revealing her face that could be more emotionally damaging to her than the doctor who would rather see a face.....It takes years to change culture...-Raven

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  3. I do believe people should respect the customs of the country they are in!! We are facing alot of those issues here in Nashville with language barriers. And personally I think if you choose to come into this country...especially illegally.....learn our language!!!! Anywhoo...everyone has their own opinion.
    Enjoyed meeting you in the convention chat as well!! Sure we can pull this off....cant we??? LOL
    hugs
    Carrie

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  4. I respect others' customs.  But a few things irk me about them.  I for one want to be looked in the EYE when I am spoken to and vice versa.  I don't want to go into a store and listen to others speak in a foreign tongue while standing 2 feet from me.  My beef with that is that you are in America.  Please speak English.  The more you speak it....the better EVERYONE else around you will UNDERSTAND you!
    Kudos to Mr. Straw for speaking his mind.  Hmmm..isn't there such a thing as free speech?  Isn't everyone entitled to an opinion?  Everyone is not supposed to agree on every issue out there.  If everyone did...what a boring society we would have.  Just my opinion, folks......
    Hugs,
    Gina
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  5. Just a thought.  I lived for 20 years in an area that was 90 percent Mexican. I heard spanish spoken around me all the time, so decided that would be a good time for me to study the language. I got spanish books, studied, listened, but ran into the same problem I had back in college studying French.  My hearing even then was not good enough for me to pick up nuances I heard.  It is amazing that you don't really have to hear all that well to speak your native language extremely well.  Just the slightest suggestion of the word will do.  Even today Doc often has to repeat a phrase to me from tv, the laugh line!  I hear almost as well as I did then. That sort of changed my idea that everybody could learn English. Many I know were struggling so badly with English it seemed they were never going to learn it.  Others-- My daughter is now bilingual.  I just love to listen to the Spanish rippling off her tongue  Gerry

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  6. I have such issue with people here in America not respecting MY customs.  I go to the Market, and it's all Mexican oriented...go get my nails done and it's Vietnamese. I go to the corner convenience store and it's people from India with turbans on their heads.   Everywhere I go I hear a language other than English!  This is America...where they can live how they want to....but I must confess I'm tired of it.  It gets a bit much at times.
    I have to seek out businesses that are English speaking if I want to because it's gotten so prevalent here.  But, this is LA.
    If I want to live where I'm not the minority I will have to move out of the state, unfortunately.  Someday, I just might.  I almost did.  
    This is a touchy subject with me...and I can offend someone easily, too.  
    Have a good day Guido.
    Pam

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