Kate posed a nice question in her blog today, after reading a writer lament the decline of moral values in the Roman Empire, 2,000 years ago.
Although I wouldn't agree that poverty go hand in hand with contentment, I have been worried for a long time about a decline stroke alteration in society's attitudes. When times are hard, people tend to look out for each other more. Now that times are good, there is a great problem with loneliness and isolation. Time and time again, some poor soul is found dead, years after they passed away. Letters keep piling through the letterbox, bills keep on being paid (Direct Debit), and nobody takes a bit of notice that one person is not seen out and about for days, weeks, months, years.
Another change, and I'm going to offend the women's rights movement here, has been birthcontrol. The Pill freed women up from the chores of the house and kids, and being able to take up a career. Whereas in the past, women were supposed to sit at home whilst the men went out to work. I fully support the idea that men and women are equally good in the workplace. The point I'm making is that mum and dad are both out working all day. Out of sheer necessity. Not because they cannot live without a lavish lifestyle, but just to pay for the bare essentials of life.
So here we have children let loose from school at 3.30pm, and their parents not home until 6pm. They are left to roam the streets, in the worst possible instance. I accept that the vast majority of people take their parental responsibility serious and arrange for someone to take care of their youngsters. But a section do not.
The result is young teenagers roaming the streets in groups, or worse: gangs, not knowing what to do with themselves. They get up to mischief, worse, intimidate people for the heck of it, vandalism, you name it. The drugs culture thrives on this as well.
Yes there is great affluence in Western society nowadays. But there is a large proportion of people who have great difficulty making ends meet. It is of course quite easy for me to sit here pontificating about the problems in society nowadays. The solution is much harder to find, because one of the greatest challenges, drugs misuse, requires not just a national but an international approach.
The War on Terrorism, as George W. Bush grandiosely put it, has had one negative side effect. Although the Taleban were kicked out of power, it also meant that the growing of opium poppies in Afghanistan, the source of about 90% of the world's supply of illicit heroin, has resumed at record levels. At least the Talebon proscribed growing poppies.
The culture of coca leaves, source for cocaine, is a multi-billion industry, which creates a society, a state within a state in countries like Colombia. The drugsbarons have power, equal to that of a head of state. Sending the cavalry in, no, I have never believed in the doctrine of bombing your opponent into submission - see Iraq.
There is international migration, with thousands travelling overseas in
search of a better life. People arrive in Europe and America, from
places with a vastly different culture, and integration is a slow
process. It leads to tensions in society, again.
In Roman times, there was only the Mediterranean to worry about. In the year 2007, all problems in society have an international root.
Tuesday, 16 January 2007
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Hi Guido. I don't think I will ever know how it was in the Roman time for a Roman, at all. The war on terror is an interesting one as I have never been so sure who the real terrorists were, those who attack before being attacking, those who attack to defend themselves? I think societies are not fun for children. There is nothing constructed for them and their creativity outside when parents are busy working sometimes until 6 and for some until 8 when they commute from far, and sometimes they cannot afford a nanny or a baby sitter, that's true. it's a pity we don't live anymore with the grand parents.
ReplyDeleteSome of us grandparents aren't looked upon very well either iimagic! For some reason this post hit a nerve! I feel the cheeky boo hooer! No matter how much we offer to help, hand money out, and tend to the little one's without charge, take them in when they have no place to live...we are still frowned down on by one or the other parent, some of us, not all! But I do agree with Guido, when we aren't needed we are shelved like a non attractive plant until something goes wrong and we have to sit up and be called upon again! What ever happened to the in-between family BBQ's and the movie nights, the calls, the I love you just because you aer there messages...life sure has changed??
ReplyDeleteI am old school, I do help my kids out, and I do take care of their kids and I've even taken in my Mother and made her a home here with us! But I have to admit when things are going good we sure are the last one's thought about!
What a scarey thing to wonder if anyone will miss you if you passed away!!! Society has produced some really disfunctioality!
Sorry I blurbed, maybe it's a down mood I'm in tonight!
:))))) Doreen
You can come live with us immagic :))))))))))) I think I"m a super grandparent! :)) hugs
ReplyDeleteVery thought provoking.
ReplyDeletePam
Indeed, integration is a slow process, and it begins within small communities and neighborhoods. It's a fact that here in USA, our neighbors from the south are here to stay. I'm still surprised at how many people continue to balk at it, fight it, refuse to believe it. They are here to stay, and all the cultural problems and changes that have resulted or will result must be taken into account. Our nation is changing, as it has been for over 200 years. I know your entry isn't focused on this alone, but it's one point you make with drugs. The newest people immigrating into our country are doubly in danger that their youth will meet with and become involved in gangs. They are at the bottom end of the pay scale, making minimum wages. I don't understand, though, how they can be living in the poorest of trailer parks, and driving the latest model SUV's. Of course, they are buying with loans that will take 20 years to pay, low payments, but even with low payments, eventually they will have to let the car go because it breaks down and they can't afford to repair it. Yes, integration is a slow process, and individual communities must be the ones to help with the integration. Likely, it will be the churches and the schools which will provide the most opportunities for helping the newcomers learn to adapt. They must be willing to change a little, and we must be willing to change a little. Not a surrender for anyone, but a compromise. Compromise can help ease tensions. With a good dose of compassion. bea
ReplyDeleteVery interesting. I appreciate Bea's comment below as well. You have brought up several different components of the stress we have in society today.
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